Kingdom Legacy Podcast

105. Running Down a Dream w/Nic Collins

In this episode I speak with Nic Collins, a man on a mission to run down his dreams! "Uncommon" is an appropriate label for Nic, who is an athlete and ultra distance runner, a podcaster, a therapist-in-training, and a man in the constant quest for growth and adventure!
We talk about Nic's experience with personal development coaching, and how his travels and experience with therapy inspired his desire to leave his job and return to school to pursue a career in counseling. Nic desires to create opportunities for men to work on themselves out in nature, and do hard things as the avenue for self-reflection and growth.
We also get into Nic's journey for holistic health, including the numerous ultra events and physical challenges he's endured (the guy has completed a 5k every day for over 4 years!).
Nic also shares about his own podcast, The Constant Quest, where he and his co-host explore the issues that men face, and the tactics and mindset that can lead to improvement, breakthrough and transformation over time!
Finally, Nic shares about his latest adventure as he is embarking on a cross-country drive in his outfitted van, where he will explore the amazingly diverse American landscape as he continues to pursue his own growth and fulfillment in life!
You can follow along with Nic and his journey:
instagram: https://www.instagram.com/niccatine/
TikTok: niccatine_
and reach out to him at niccollinsenterprises@gmail.com
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104. Creating a Foundation of Faith for your Family w/Erik Allen

Erik Allen is a man of integrity, hard working, and an overcomer. Growing up in a broken home, Erik was forced to grow up fast, even having to raise himself from the age of 14. He battled addiction, loneliness, and hopelessness as he desperately tried to fill the gaping voids in his life. As a young man Erik found himself empty and tired of settling for less. After the feverish pursuit of the Holy Spirit, Erik decided to surrender and trust the one that would never let him down.
Once Erik gave his life to Christ, his life completely turned around. He met a beautiful woman and a new chapter was written. He could look back on God's faithful hand and sustaining love that was with him throughout his decades of struggle.
Now, Erik and his wife of 18+ years and their two children live in Northern Idaho and live a humble and blessed life. Together they are breaking the cycles handed down to them of addictions, depression, abuse, and lies. They are leaving a new legacy for their next generation built on a biblical foundation.
Enjoy this conversation with Erik Allen, and be encouraged to know that God loves YOU! He has an Uncommon plan for your life! And He is always with you even in your darkest moment!
You can connect with Erik on his socials:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erikgallen/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ErikAllenMedia
Twitter - https://twitter.com/ErikGAllen
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIvY...
Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikgallen/
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103. Liturgies for Life: daily rhythms of faith for your family

What comes to mind when you hear the word "liturgy?"
Is it a stale or stuffy religious word? Is it a concept that seems overly pious or impersonal? What if liturgy was actually our opportunity to practically live out our faith in our moment by moment interactions as a family?
In this episode I explore the practice of liturgy, and its useful application in our daily lives: from getting ready for the day, driving in our cars, dealing with discipline, and gathering for meals.
God's word has much to say on how we are to raise our children in the faith:
Proverbs 20:7 The righteous who walks in his integrity - blessed are his children after him!
Josh 24:15 …choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served… or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord
Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 these commandments that i give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress (or teach) them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up… *so always
Psalms 78:5-6 He decreed statues for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which he commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children
Ephesians 6:4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
The practice of liturgy offers us a template of prayer that can remind us and empower us to worship God even in the messiest moments!
Listen to our previous 2-part episode on how to create a family discipleship plan: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thee-fraternity-live-creating-a-family-discipleship/id1642571053?i=1000610387280
Download our FREE Family Discipleship Plan!
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102. Doing Hard Things is Your Path to Uncommon Growth

Have you heard this age old adage: Easy choices, hard life; hard choices, easy life?
In this episode we look at how choosing to do hard things - even manufactured adversity - will equip you with the resolve and grit to overcome inevitable challenges later in life.
The "effort paradox" refers to the counterintuitive phenomenon where individuals often avoid engaging in activities that require effort, despite knowing that doing so would lead to long-term benefits or rewards.
Choosing to do hard things has numerous benefits including:
strengthening your future memory
building your resilience
cultivating a growth mindset
enhancing problem-solving and creativity
deepening relationships
Are you making easy decisions that are leading you to a hard life, or making hard decisions that are leading you to an easy life filled with Uncommon growth?
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101. Writing Your Own Uncommon Story w/Alejandro Avendano aka the Million Friends Guy

On today's episode I talk with Alejandro Avendano aka the Million Friends Guy, who is on a mission to build an impactful network, make the world a better place, and leave a legacy for his son Noah.
Alejandro is a runner, a husband, a father, friend, and much more! He recently added published author to that list with the launch of his children's book, Noah's Space Ark. His book features 12 different animal characters that serve as archetypes for important character traits (i.e. Be Kind like Tony the Rabbit, modeled after motivational speaker Tony Robins). His book is a fantastic way to introduce children to important qualities they should aspire to cultivate in their own lives!
We also discuss the importance of reading regularly to our children, helping them to embrace their own curious nature, and the practical ways in which we can make reading simple and fun!
Alejandro shares about his background growing up, and how time away from his family forced him to create his own family through friendships. He saw how important relationships are in his own life, and he continues to prioritize intentional friendships and community even now as he is married and growing his family.
Enjoy this conversation, and the message of adventure and hope that Alejandro is spreading with his own life and art! You can learn more about Alejandro by following him on instagram
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100. Keep Feeding the Beast: our 100th Episode Celebration!!

Well ladies & gentlemen, we did it! 100 episodes in the bag, and we're just getting started!
Whether you've been a longtime listener, or just joining us, thank you for being apart of our Uncommon journey. We hope that our show - the topics we explore, and the amazing guests we speak with - continues to add value to your life and inspire you on your own Uncommon journey!
Remember that no matter what you are pursuing, consistency is key! Keep chipping away. Keep your head down, don't allow distraction or comparison to deter you. Focus on your output and trust God with the outcomes, He is faithful!
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How to Gain Wisdom through the Fear of the Lord

Did you know we're born with only 2 innate fears?
The fear of loud noises
The fear of falling down
These fears are hardwired into us to protect us and keep us alive. If this is true, it begs the question: Where do all our other fears come from?
It turns out that all other fears are LEARNED fears. These learned fears are acquired through experiences and environmental cues, mainly negative associations (i.e. a traumatic run-in with a rooster).
We can also adopt learned fears from other people and the culture at large. For example, if you grew up with parents that fought about money or said things like, "We can't afford it," and "Money doesn't grow on trees," then you might develop the learned fear of a scarcity mindset as an adult.
But what does God say about our fears?
In stark contrast to being afraid of various internal & external perceived threats, God's word commands us 365 times, "Do not be afraid." *Hint: that's 1 command for every day of the year.
However, God does command us to live in the fear of the Lord. This fear is not a trepidation or anxiety caused by impending punishment; rather, it refers to a reverence - an awe and holy devotion to our Creator God.
In this episode we will unpack the biblical definition of "fear," and explore the relationship between humility, fear, and wisdom. Understanding and embracing this biblical definition of fear will radically transform our view of God, ourselves, and our circumstances.
As you continue on your own Uncommon journey, know that you can do so without being afraid of the unknown, for God goes before you, He is with you, and He has wonderful plans to prosper - not harm - you!
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Merging Faith & Fitness on Your Uncommon Journey w/Elizabeth Kirchmeier

1 Timothy 4:8 tells us that, physical training is of some value; but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.
What does it look like to pursue physical fitness and hone your athletic abilities in a God-honoring way?
This question - and others - are what my guest, Elizabeth Kirchmeier, and I discuss on the show today. Elizabeth is the COO of Faith RXD, an organization with the mission to serve and strengthen the fitness community to live for Christ and share His love.
Elizabeth shares her testimony of coming to faith in Jesus, and how she discovered her calling that allowed her to marry her passion for fitness with her love for Christ!
She shares the different ways the Faith RXD achieves its mission through its local chapters, training events and IMPACT conferences. She also talks about the power of using the platform of a workout to connect with people from all walks of life and share Christ's love with them. Elizabeth shares her inspiration and motivation from 2 Cor 5:20 which states, We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: be reconciled to God.
Be sure to visit Faith RXD to learn more about their work and how you can get involved!
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5 Ways to Enhance your Romance with Dance w/Victoria!

How do you define 'romance'?
Does romance look like candles, chocolates, and a bouquet of flowers?
Is it a long walk on the beach?
Or maybe it looks more like a heart to heart conversation with your loved one?
Whether you are single or in a 'romantic' relationship, I want you to picture what your ideal expression of romance would be.
Got it?
Now, take an honest assessment of the current level of romance in your relationship. Rank it from 1-10 (1 being Grumpier Old Men, 10 being Casablanca)... and ask yourself, "What could help us improve our romance score?"
Now, what pictures, thoughts or feelings resonate when you think of dancing?
Would you describe yourself as a natural dancer, or a rhythmically impaired klutz with 2 left feet?
Does the thought of slow dancing with your lover make you shudder with excitement, or cause you to perspire with anxiety?
In this episode I sit down again with my lovely wifey, Victoria, to share about our dance journey: from awkward 1st dance instruction, to fun rumba and salsa group classes, and dancing free & without a care at my cousin's wedding.
We also talk through 5 ways that DANCING together will enhance your romantic connection:
shared experience & quality time
improved (non-verbal) communication
trust and connection
physical fitness & well-being
spontaneity & silliness
If dance sounds like a fun way to spice up your love life, and your in the Des Moines area, look no further than the Des Moines Ballroom for your next dance class!
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Couples Dream Retreat KC Recap!

"Marriage is like a partnership formed to run very small, mundane, and often boring non-profit business... and I mean that in a good way" - Lori Gottlieb
While not the most romantic take on marriage, this is an honest perspective that many couples can relate to.
A marriage is a partnership. It requires clearly defined roles & responsibilities. You need transparency and open communication. And much planning is required to reach your end goal.
But what is you "end goal" in marriage?
To stay together? Reach Retirement? Raise good kids?
That's an OK start... but what if we dared to DREAM BIGGER?
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In this episode, Phillip and Ryan reflect on Thee Uncommon's 1st annual COUPLES DREAM RETREAT in Kansas City. 3 couples intentionally chose to take a break from their routines & responsibilities, to go away for a weekend and INVEST in their marriage. We focused on building our friendship, talking through vital facets of our marriage & families, and prayerfully cast victorious vision for our families.
And oh yeah - we had a ton of fun in the process!
Each couple left the weekend feeling excited and confident in pursuing their most worthwhile dreams for their marriage!
You can watch our recap video here!
You can also listen to Ryan & Victoria share in more detail their Why behind their couples retreats: podcast episode
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Marriage isn't always fun & glamorous. It's often messy, mundane, and even frustrating... that's common
But when we choose to commit a little time to step away from the distractions and responsibilities, we open ourselves up to seeing and receiving the BIG blessings God has for us! That's UNCOMMON!
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